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Poster: patkelley Date: Mar 1, 2007 1:11pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: she's got everything delightful...

she's got everything I need! Here's a shout-out to all of our spouses/significant others. Mine puts up with a ton of shit from me (not all of it unjustified), and has never criticized GD music of the fact that fact that her boyfriend is a Deadhead lawyer (not all that uncommon it seems). I'm feeling especially close to her today and thought I'd start a thread where we can give props to the "other ones" in our lives.

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Poster: wineland Date: Mar 2, 2007 10:40am
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: she's got everything delightful...

My wife was the girl next door in college, literally. When I met her I was deep into the Dead (some things never change). I've always said to a certain extent you can tell a person by their musical tastes. At the time she had American Beauty and Without A Net in her cd rack. We spent the early years hiking in the Pacific Cascades & Rockies and going to all kinds of shows, including the Dead. I still can't listen to Sugar Magnolia without thinking of her and smiling. We will be married 11 years this July. Every summer after Jerry passed there is a point when she would say with a look of longing, "I really miss Jerry." Summers were never the same when the tours ended. In fact, it was my wife that forced me to listen to Space. I love the extended jams, but she helped shine the light on the atonal beauty of Space. Outside the Dead we are pretty harmonious in our music, although I tend to lean towards jazz and she classical, and she cannot handle my occasional hankerin' for some Ozzy, Iron Maiden or Tenacious D, we meld back together with the blues and bluegrass. Two nights ago we had a great discussion on 60's Pink Floyd that was sparked by a LMA posting.

So I can listen to as much Dead as I want and never get a complaint. However, if I incessantly talk about the Dead or why this show we are listening to is so monumental, then our conversations go sideways. I realized the problem when I watched my buddy talk non-stop about the NFL during the season a few years ago. It gets old if there is nothing else to talk about. So I keep it to a minimum and all is good.

All in all, I am a lucky man. She is my summer love in the spring, fall and winter.

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Poster: grendelschoice Date: Mar 2, 2007 3:28pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: she's got everything delightful...

Ahhhhh, the spouse issue.

Do you know that my loving, patient, beautiful wife refers to me and the rest of us here on the LMA as the "Grateful Dead Gnomes"?

Whenever I tell her i'm posting here she says "Tell the gnomes I said "hi"....then she goes into this high-pitched elf-like mocking voice and skips around going "Grateful Dead, Grateful Dead, Grateful Deeeeeeeaaaaaaaad!!!!"

All in good fun. Fact is, I drove her over the edge w/the Dead and ruined it for her. When we first started dating we did the whole "what do you like to listen to" thing and I sheepishly admitted I was a DeadHead, and she said
"Oh, I really don't know them, but I do like that Touch of Grey song....and I said 'well, I could make you a tape" (very "High Fidelity" of me) and when she said "sure" I went out and made the best girlfriend-friendly newbie Dead tape in human history...lots of stuff from "Reckoning", and since I knew she liked jazz, the "Eyes" from Without a Net featuring Branford on sax...which she LOVED. The tape was a success, and therein lied the planted seeds of my own mistake...it didn't actually start til several years later when we'd been married for 2 years and I discovered--THIS.

The acrhive. The mecca. I mean, I played the Dead more around her after she green lighted the tape--but not like this. All of a sudden, virtually the entire live catalogue was lying at my feet. Replacing old hissy tapes w/SBD quality shows....discovering new shows I didn't know even existed...you know, you know....

Suddenly, every disc played in the car together was another Dead show. ANOTHER version of Eyes, ANOTHER version of Scarlet-Fire. Slowly, but inevitably, she started to go stark raving mad.

Then came the cutting remarks: Shut up, Donna! Jeezus, that woman is so off-key it's insane!!! This isn;'t that dumb "Wheel" song again, is it? (imitation of Jerry wheezing thru a blown lyric...ehhhhhhhh....)...I know it makes her sound cruel (I once turned to her and just said "Mean lady in my car!") but she truly is the most caring, patient, beautiful woman on Earth and I drove her to this state with pure over-abuse of the music.

To be fair, she does understand the factor that this uncovering of literally thousands of Dead shows is akin to finding buried treasure after years of wandering the land as a pauper, but it doesn't make it any easier for her.

And she doesn't have any "rules" about me playing the music. As long as I can put up w/the gnome jokes, she's OK with it.

And the best is when I get her to admit that she's heard something good. i.e.--a few weeks ago I was playing the "Ramble on Rose" from 11-30-80, and when it was done she said "Hmm. Jerry really belted that out good."

I said not a word...Nothing left to do but smile, smile, smile!

Peace, Gnomes!

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Poster: BryanE Date: Mar 1, 2007 1:51pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: she's got everything delightful...

And a tip of the hat to you, sir, for keeping her close in your thoughts and reminding the rest of us to do the same. You say she "puts up with a ton of shit." May I suggest that you stop giving her so much shit to put up with? This could work wonders in your relationship and everywhere else in your lives. Take it from someone whose wife has put up with TWO tons of shit.
Sometimes I let my arrogance get the better of me-feeding that donkey called power and control-and after I regain my senses, I spend the next day and a half to three days cringing, wincing, and generally wallowing in self-hatred for allowing my evil twin to come out of his cage. The Ratdog/String Cheese Incident show last summer amounted to the most miserable time I've ever had at a concert because my meanness made her stay home. After the dust settled from the quarrel, she insisted I go because she did not want me to miss Bobby, but I ended up missing her more than I would have missed him.
I thank God, though, that I am much better than I used to be: I have learned techniques for controlling my anger; I have a greater respect for the other people in my life; I actually was diagnosed with a neurological disorder that can be treated with medication, and that has helped me enormously. But it is primarily because I was fortunate enough to have found someone with a limitless heart and a mind infintely greater than mine that I have been able to evolve into the kind of person I would have always wanted to be. I'm still evolving-it's a daily process-but because of her, that old version of me is becoming more and more of a distant memory. Praise God for bringing us together!

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Poster: high flow Date: Mar 1, 2007 1:23pm
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Hey Patkelley - I always knew you were a classy dude! Nice work.

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Poster: patkelley Date: Mar 1, 2007 1:59pm
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Thanks! I try. And thanks to BryanE for the tip. I'll try to give her less shit. (I'm actually not that bad)

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Poster: smi2les Date: Mar 1, 2007 2:34pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: she's got everything delightful...

All good tobe in LOVE....Deadheadlawyer, sound like a conflict of interest. No wonder there's so much hostility.
Next time as for a bite of that lawyers sandwich.

Nice post BryanE.... I've been there myself, sometime you can just get tried of your tail between your leg. I continually attempt to right the wrongs of my life. Now I feel I'm over the line and the good karma rolls right in.
Hard to loss in love. KEEP ON TRUCKIN'

check-out SOPRANOS, season 5, episode 12.

I know I've been there.



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Poster: patkelley Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:16pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: she's got everything delightful...

I know a few other lawyers that are into the GD. I don't really think it's a conflict in a bad way, but I'm sure i understand whatever point you're making.

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Poster: high flow Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:25pm
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The perception is, if you bathe and work, GD is a conflict.

As we all know, that's just not true. I smell great AND I love GD. Who would ever guess.

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:35pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: she's got everything delightful...

yeah, i know that one man. bogus.

some of the flea carriers gave us a bad name - but DAMN were they COOL ON THE SCENE!!!!!!

losers

(glad some of them are there to pump my gas now in the winter when it is 20 below zero though - if not - they serve my fries nice and hot at Wendy's)

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Poster: tree-ap Date: Mar 2, 2007 1:51pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: she's got everything delightful...

My brother-in-law is NOW a lawyer, though NOT a head. BUT, my wife & I took him to several RFK shows, smoked MUCH weed, took many grams of mushrooms, and imagine that---he STILL was able to pass the bar.

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Poster: patkelley Date: Mar 2, 2007 5:41pm
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I like the sound of this guy

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Poster: JamminJerome Date: Mar 1, 2007 1:24pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: she's got everything delightful...

Here's a shoutout to my girlfriend, who's absolutely amazing. She doesn't give me crap about the Dead and is even starting to like them (finally! it took a year and a half...now if I can only get her to like bluegrass). She's always so kind, gentle, and patient (even when I am not). She's definitely worth the long distance relationship

"Standing on the moon
With nothing else to do
A lovely view of heaven
But I'd rather be with you"

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Poster: tree-ap Date: Mar 2, 2007 1:54pm
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My wife "hates" "all that jammimg" but loves The GD. Speaking of bluegrass, try Old Crow Medicine Show's "Take'em Away" from the OCMS album. While they're not EXACTLY bluegrass---more ole timey string band music---she may actually dig them. I hope it works for ya...

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Poster: high flow Date: Mar 2, 2007 2:12pm
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THAT is one GREAT album. How sweet it is. Wagon Wheel. We're all in this thing together.....great tunes...

Hot Buttered Rum does some old-timey stuff too...

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Poster: esreveRDelay Date: Mar 1, 2007 1:42pm
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This goes out to that beautiful woman I can't always be with. Thank god for the Grateful Dead. The covers were still warm...

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Poster: LordOfTheExacto Date: Mar 1, 2007 2:35pm
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My wife detests the Dead, and still lets me have my bootlegs playing in the truck when we go places. (All she asks is that I skip the extended jam parts.) I've got Jerry posters and such all over the place, and concert shirts, and everything, but she never complains.

And I try not to give her tons of shit, but being male, a certain amount of the substance is simply going to accrue naturally. If I were married to me, I'd pine to be a lesbian. But my wife takes it all in stride.

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 2:55pm
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lol - my S.O. lets me keep the extended jams going and has me skip all the vocal portions!!! i kid you not!

she is no deadhead by any stretch - can't stand them - but is into free form jazz, Coltrane, Davis, Kimock, and the ilk. Loves Jerry's playin, but vociferously vomits upon the first vocal attempt at singing. oh well, i'll take what i can get.

She is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Kind, supportive, loving to a fault, with a good slap upside the head with a ball-peen hammer when necessary.... just the kind of woman i need in my life. Puts up with no shit - like no woman should - but is forgiving to a fault after a sitting down and working things out. The warmest eyes a man could ever gaze into. Beautiful both inside and out. I hope all of you are as lucky as me.

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Poster: patkelley Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:10pm
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That's really nice dire. I was hoping that you and some of the other regular posters would respond. Here's to a good night.

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:19pm
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you too my friend - thanks for posting this subject - my Girl gets little mention here compared to how much she means to my life - you opened up the door to let me put her on the board even for just a moment

thanks man!!! i appreciate that - it felt good

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Poster: deadmax Date: Mar 1, 2007 3:30pm
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Mine never says a word and even likes the Dead. At a show one time they were playin Wharfrat, she asked what the name of it was and I told her, then we got into the song and then the crowd (you know how it was, we were on the floor in the back with the crazies). After a while she she asked what song was playing now, I told her it was the same song. Without missing a beat she said, "that poor rat!"

Now of course you had to be there, but it goes to show what a good sport she is about the Dead.

I accidentally put some Dead on my 9-year-old's iPOD. SHe loves it! Listens to it by choice.

I'll tell you, I really got lucky.

Thanks for making my think about it. I'll have to tell her now.

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 3:44pm
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cool max - always good to have thoughts pulled out of the memory huh???

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Poster: rastamon Date: Mar 1, 2007 3:52pm
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Neil Diamond shines on...

Hello, my friend, hello
Its good to need you so
Its good to love you like I do
And to feel this way
When I hear you say
Hello

Hello, my friend, hello
Just called to let you know
I think about you every night
And I know its late
But I couldnt wait
Hello

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:14pm
Forum: GratefulDead Subject: Re: TEST TIME DEADHEADS

OK people - test time!!!! - name the poet (the reference is obvious - no cheating!!!!!)

So I would hear out those lungs,
The air split into nine levels,
Some gift of tongues of the whistler

In the invalid's bed: my mother,
Warbling all day to herself
The thousand variations of one song;

It is called Buckdancer's Choice.



Let's see who really know's their Dead - like i said NO CHEATING!!!!!!!!!

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Poster: rastamon Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:38pm
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no idea...uhhhh Uncle John wrote it???

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:43pm
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inspiration for uncle john's lyrics

hint - the poet wrote a novel that was turned into a famous movie about the south - nasty flick

famous line from the movie "you've got a pertie mouth" (dead giveaway for all you movie buffs)

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:55pm
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i'll leave this one for my brother poet-in-residence Arbuthnot.

let's see what his recall/knowledge is like

i'll admit- this is a tough one

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Poster: desact Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:56pm
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Here is my favorite line from a James Dickey poem, one called "Adultery":


"We have all been in rooms
We cannot die in, and they are odd places, and sad."

Is that not awesome?

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:00pm
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actually - ive read that before - and it just hit me in a different way just now

maybe i'm just flashbacking my friend - but that was really weird - don't know why you pulled those lines up - but that was really powerful

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Poster: rastamon Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:07pm
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"The glacier knocks in the cupboard,
The desert sighs in the bed,
And the crack in the tea-cup opens
A lane to the land of the dead"

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Poster: smi2les Date: Mar 1, 2007 6:57pm
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...as thoughts deny their honesty,
and words costume as cheer
...we'll hide ourselves like enemies,
when signs of love bring fear.

the difference between a whore and a bitch is;
a whore does everybody
a bitch does everybody but you.

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Poster: Fishead Date: Mar 2, 2007 9:02am
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sorta like anna nichole ...huh....

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Poster: smi2les Date: Mar 2, 2007 5:31pm
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SORTA LIKE A FADING CALIS'D BLISTER.

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Poster: desact Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:16pm
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Dickey was a great writer--really down to earth. Sometimes down and dirty, too, of course. I've never forgotten those lines since the first time I read them.

Oh, and Rasta, I like the Auden, too.

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Poster: rastamon Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:22pm
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indeed! One of WH Auden's finest

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:29pm
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i'm not as familiar with Auden as i should be - me must read

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:19pm
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you an english person by the way??? or just a poetry fan??

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:14pm
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incredible lines (infortunately hit a little too close to home in my past)

Look up "Reading Genesis to a Blind Child" for a purely visceral powerful touching poem which will blow your mind. I'm pretty sure one of his boys from his first marriage was blind. The texture of the language and the imagarey in relation to that texture just reaches off the page and you feel as if you ARE that blind child. Very powerful.

Glad you knew the poet man - very nice!!! kudos!!! that was a tough one

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Poster: high flow Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:29pm
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Hey desact - I was lurking at DH recently and saw the link to your published article.

Congrats.

Really interesting article. Most folks never have to think about such tasteless marketing tactics. I am inspired by your spirit and tenacity.

Thanks for sharing your experience.

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:43pm
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i didnt see that high flow - damn

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Poster: desact Date: Mar 1, 2007 6:52pm
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Thank you, HF. I really appreciate that.

and Dire, yes and yes. I hunted down the "Genesis" poem. Damn good.

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:58pm
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are you tryin to be coy?? - lol

one of my favorite poets - and obviously Hunter liked him too.

Very nicely done man!!! I'm impressed!!!!!!!

and nice quote!!!

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Poster: ducats Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:06pm
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Kalifornia? based on a book by 2 people?

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 5:14pm
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Deliverance - from the 70's

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Poster: smi2les Date: Mar 1, 2007 7:07pm
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you must be into canoing

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Poster: smi2les Date: Mar 1, 2007 7:09pm
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another one from the base daze..........

been thinking about my culture and the thinks we like to do,
seem we party all night long, and sometimes the next day too, well we put thing up are noses, and we hold thing in our lungs, when we want to take a trip, we just put thing on our tongues, but we ain't out to hurt nobody, so make us buy some guns.

now where's my watch ?

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Poster: ghostofpig Date: Mar 2, 2007 5:00am
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I went to grad school at Emory with Jimmy's grandaughter--dated her for a while--and met Dickey often. The man loved his whiskey!

Below is a poem inspired by a jar kept at Fernbank museum which allegedly held the stillborn remains of a sheep-boy--the result of a coupling between a farmhand and a sheep. My country boy Southern Lit. prof really loved this one. And he loved to drink with J.D.



Don't know why this reminds me on someone on the board, a Scottsman perhaps?



The Sheep Child
by James L. Dickey

Farm boys wild to couple
With anything with soft-wooded trees
With mounds of earth mounds
Of pinestraw will keep themselves off
Animals by legends of their own:
In the hay-tunnel dark
And dung of barns, they will
Say I have heard tell

That in a museum in Atlanta
Way back in a corner somewhere
There’s this thing that’s only half
Sheep like a woolly baby
Pickled in alcohol because
Those things can’t live. his eyes
Are open but you can’t stand to look
I heard from somebody who ...

But this is now almost all
Gone. The boys have taken
Their own true wives in the city,
The sheep are safe in the west hill
Pasture but we who were born there
Still are not sure. Are we,
Because we remember, remembered
In the terrible dust of museums?

Merely with his eyes, the sheep-child may

Be saying saying

I am here, in my father’s house.
I who am half of your world, came deeply
To my mother in the long grass
Of the west pasture, where she stood like moonlight
Listening for foxes. It was something like love
From another world that seized her
From behind, and she gave, not lifting her head
Out of dew, without ever looking, her best
Self to that great need. Turned loose, she dipped her face
Farther into the chill of the earth, and in a sound
Of sobbing of something stumbling
Away, began, as she must do,
To carry me. I woke, dying,

In the summer sun of the hillside, with my eyes
Far more than human. I saw for a blazing moment
The great grassy world from both sides,
Man and beast in the round of their need,
And the hill wind stirred in my wood,
My hoof and my hand clasped each other,
I ate my one meal
Of milk, and died
Staring. From dark grass I came straight

To my father’s house, whose dust
Whirls up in the halls for no reason
When no one comes piling deep in a hellish mild corner,
And, through my immortal waters,
I meet the sun’s grains eye
To eye, and they fail at my closet of glass.
Dead, I am most surely living
In the minds of farm boys: I am he who drives
Them like wolves from the hound bitch and calf
And from the chaste ewe in the wind.
They go into woods into bean fields they go
Deep into their known right hands. Dreaming of me,
They groan they wait they suffer
Themselves, they marry, they raise their kind.

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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 2, 2007 9:41am
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Very cool post Ghost!!!! thanks for putting that one up man!! Must have been awesome meeting JD (never mind dating his granddaughter - lol, just kidding). I would have loved to meet a poet and man of letters of his caliber. I only recently pulled out his book of poetry to do some rereading and had almost forgotton how powerful and visceral his use of language and imagery can be.

Has been quite a long time since I read The Sheep Child. Reading lines 27-39 brought back how shocking/stunning yet strangely beautiful his poetry can be.

Time for me to go back and reread the poem again. Thanks again Ghost!! - much appreciated

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Poster: ghostofpig Date: Mar 2, 2007 11:18am
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I had a great time back in the starving doctoral student days.
A week after I started, Woodruff (read coke!) gave Emory a zillion dollars, and did that money fly! Within a few years, our library became the repository of all sorts of scholarly papers, letters, manuscripts, etc. Dickey was one of the first to seed his section with a boat load of stuff. Quite a few notables wandered our way. Seamus Heaney (famous Shamus), became all but poet in residence.

But my greatest memory is not of a poet. Jimmy Carter came to roost at Emory around 1984 or so. He was "teaching" (read hanging out), and had his own repository in the library (before the Carter Center was built). One morning, as I'm stumbling up the hill waking up, I notice a couple of S.S. types rounding the corner. I knew it was Jimmy. As I approached him (he is very short), student papers, he stuck out his hand said, "A fellah professah." I shook his hand, and, gathering all my nerve, struck up a conversation. We talked about the importance of freshman comp (ha, ha); and I got up the gumption to ask him to step into my classroom for a minute and speak to my students.

He did. For an hour. Best class they had.

Nice guy after all. Even if he isn't much of a poet.

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Poster: Fishead Date: Mar 2, 2007 9:47am
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Into Darkness

Silence shrouds the forest
As the birds announce the dawn
Three trav'llers ford the river
And southward journey on
The road is lined with peril
The air is charged with fear
The shadow of his nearness
Weighs like iron tears



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Poster: direwolf0701 Date: Mar 1, 2007 4:31pm
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oh - cmon! - no one!!

(without googling of course)

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